So I hope you know that women do specific things only for certain kinds of men, and especially men that they actually have feelings towards. And so if you're with a woman, you've been dating her for a while, and you're not quite sure where she stands in terms of how she feels about you and whether she wants the relationship to foster into something else or grow into something else, then this is the perfect article for you. In this article, I'm going to highlight things that women do only for the men they love. Another litmus test, if you choose to call it that.
Things that women do only for the men they love. Number one, they introduce you to friends and family. Now, if you are with a woman who does not seem to be interested, does not go out with you in public or do any of these things that women who truly love you ordinarily wouldn't think twice about, then I think you need to think twice about your relationship status.
You might be in a situation and not a relationship. You're in that relationship alone, and this woman is really with you just for the things that she could possibly get from you, and it's really not that deep. Number two, she dates you for a really long time.
Now, to know if a woman really loves you, chances are you want to know how long she's willing to stick around. Maybe you guys have been dating for, say, a year or two or three years, and she's consistently been by your side through the ups and downs. She has done all these things that just to show that she's in for the long haul.
Now, women who are not interested, of course it's not rocket science will not stick around that long, and especially once they get what they want from you. And you should be in a position to always sort of tell these women apart if you're not too sure.
Another thing women do only for the men they love is they confide in them. And I'm not talking about confiding in things that really don't matter.
She goes deep. She bears her soul out. She actually literally strips bare before you and tells you, look, this is what plagues me.
This is the reason I'm not able to sleep at night. These are my fears. These are also my dreams and my aspirations.
She confides in you, and she trusts you to make good with information that she's sharing. Now, if she doesn't like you at all, trust me, she's not going to be confiding in you, because, for starters, she doesn't even trust the person that you are. So for me, that is a clear indicator that the woman you're with really does love you.
Number four, she chooses to spend time with you over time with her friends. Now, don't get me wrong. It doesn't mean that every single time that she has perhaps chosen to hang out with her friends as opposed to you, means that she's not taking the relationship seriously.
I'm just trying to say that more often than not, she would prioritize spending time with you as opposed to other people out there, and she doesn't apologize for it. Of course, every now and again, you guys will have to spend time apart because, hey, as Lionel Ritchie would say, even lovers need a holiday. And I can't help but agree, if you're in each other's spaces, there is, of course, a downside to people who want to be together all the time.
Soon you could get fed up and a little irritable as well if nobody's giving each other space. But if she chooses to hang out with you predominantly overhanging out with her friends and other people she may care about, that, for me, is a clear sign that you need to look out for she really does love you. Number five, she feels comfortable enough not to be perfect.
Now, you know, when you start dating, like, each of you are on your guard, trying to look your best every single time to impress. Now, after a while of dating, a lot of people let their guards down. What that means is if she used to put on full makeup just to meet you, she probably has stopped doing that not because she cares less or doesn't want to look good for you, but she just realizes that, hey, you know what? If this is for the long haul, then this is who I am, accept me for who I am, take me as I am kind of thing.
So when she's around you, she probably won't be in the best clothes. You could come home and meet her in just her regular clothes, as opposed to her always dressing up and looking pretty for you. Maybe you might even get to smell her morning breath.
How exciting. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that this woman will never dress up for you or try to look good when you're around, because I actually feel like women who do not put in any kind of effort might not also be the best for you.
Because at the end of the day. She also has to remember to keep the same things that got you attracted to her going, right? It shouldn't be about the fact that now she has you. She sort of lets her guard down.
And it's a thing that a lot of people do in relationships and sort of end up taking the relationship for granted. Stay away from that. But she's just comfortable being herself around you.
Number six, she stops seeing other men. Now, this is especially true of those kinds of women who have a lot of attention from other guys. So when you met her, she most likely was dating multiple men, not necessarily sleeping with them.
I never said sleeping with them. I said dating, getting to know, entertaining other guys, because she couldn't quite figure out where this was going with you. But once she settled in her heart and mind that you were the guy for her, she suddenly lets everybody else go and just dates you.
It means she's interested. She's willing to get serious with you and take things to the next level. Number seven, she sees you in her future.
Now, if this is a woman that you happen to be dating, she is a great catch. She's already making plans about, for instance, how many kids you want to have. She's already making plans about the community you guys want to live in or the house you want to purchase.
She's actually making future plans between the two of you to make sure that you're all on the right path. If you have a partner like that who is looking into the future, it's a clear indication that they want to do this with you. And you should remove all doubts and jump headfirst into the relationship.
It certainly will be worth your while, provided both of you are willing to jump through all the hurdles together. Number eight, she talks to you about everything. Now, if this person doesn't really like you, they're not going to come to you as a confidant, someone they can sort of just talk about their day with.
Something funny happened, you're the first person she's thinking about. Something sad happened, you're the first person she's thinking about. When she goes to bed, she's thinking about you.
When she wakes up, she's thinking about you. But basically, there's nothing that doesn't happen in her life that she doesn't feel the need to tell you about. She roped in from dawn to dusk.
That's the kind of relationship you want to entertain. Because this person most likely will not be the kind of person who will be keeping secrets from you and making you feel inadequate or insecure. So if you meet a woman who tells you everything, including her fears and her dreams, as I already stated earlier, this is definitely a good sign.
Number nine, she looks past your faults. Now, if you're without sin, cast the first stone. Each of us are guilty.
Each of us have really bad habits that we'd rather drop. But this person is willing to overlook your bad habits and work with you through them to help you improve. They make you want to be better.
They make you want to change and turn your life around. They make you want to give up all those bad habits and little faults just to be a better person for them. And you just feel as if this sacrifice is actually worth it.
When you have a woman who's willing to look past your faults, not necessarily to entertain all your bullshit, but just to look past certain shortcomings that you have because she believes in you and she believes that she has a future with you, that's definitely a good woman to keep. Number ten, she remembers things important to you. Yes, yes.
If you have a woman who is taking down dates, making mental notes, if you have a woman who's paying attention to the little things, and for most people it's the little things that matter, then you definitely have a good woman. Because, you see, she could possibly be paying attention to all the big things that everybody else notices. But it's the little things that she does when you least expect it that should count.
It's those little things that add up and become this big giant picture of what your future possibly could be like with her, it's the little things. If she takes note of these important things to you, then you know that this woman is definitely in for business and she's got your back. Two, four, seven.
Number eleven, she tells people you're a couple. Now, the moment a woman introduces you as a friend, when you know between the two of you you're actually dating or you thought you were dating, that's a red flag. But if she's happy to tell people, hey, this is my boyfriend, hey, meet my fiance or anything of that nature, that's an endorsement right there that you should be proud of at that point in time, know that she has forsaken all others and is following you all the way.
So with such a woman, hold her tight, hold her close and make her yours. Number twelve, she can compromise when it comes to you. Now, love is all about compromise.
And there are lots of people who are set in their ways and do not want to compromise for the other people in their lives. When you meet a woman who is willing to compromise to make you happy, is willing to compromise to make the relationship grow, I think that you have found a gem and you should hold her close. Now, it's different if maybe the thing that's happening goes against her very essence, her values, her moral values and things like that.
Because everybody has like a list of red flags, a list of things that they will not compromise on. But largely, if this woman has a few things that you've pointed out that originally she was averse to, but are suddenly given into. It could be a sign that she actually wants to do this with you and she's willing to work on herself to make sure that you are happy.
So there you have it. These are the things that women do only with the men they love. Now, if you have a woman out there who is doing all these things, you are in luck.